1000 voices speak for compassion

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“Compassion is the emotion that one feels in response to the suffering of others that motivates a desire to help.” is what Wikipedia tells us. While it is easy to find compassion for victims of brutality, finding it for the perpetrators is another matter as is evidenced in the blog post by Jo Robinson I came across that alerted me to the cause of “1000 voices speak for compassion”. (https://africolonialstories.wordpress.com/2015/02/20/does-everyone-deserve-compassion/)

I am normally not too religiously inclined, but that post brought a quote to mind that made me think about this some more from a perspective that could help create more compassion. “Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing” Luke 23-34. It seems that Jesus felt compassion for the people that put him on the cross. A more current example is the Dalai Lama, who is today’s main advocator for compassion. Despite all the violence committed against him and his beloved country of Tibet, he is able to find compassion for the perpetrators! How is it that there are actually people out there that firmly believe that forgiveness and compassion is the right response to combat violence? Our “normal” response would generally at least be a good beating or jail to punish the person that is committing the violence. After all they had a choice of not doing it, or did they?

From psychological research it appears that humans form most of their beliefs, habits and understanding of the world and society they grow up in during the first 6 years of their lives. They do this by absorbing habits and ideas of those closest to them, like immediate family. This immediate family mostly acts on their beliefs formed in their childhood with a few added more current ones they have taken on board deliberately by “free” choices colored by their society and culture’s ideas of moral and justice. Thinking about this I cannot help but question how free our choices really are? How much of what we believe is really our very own opinion? How much is absorbed from the media, friends and family?

It is not until we truly question those beliefs within, that we can realize how wrong some of them can be. There are many games and movies based on the subject of justice and revenge and who doesn’t have a little feel good moment when the bad guy gets his serve? But really think about it, if you were a bad guy getting your serve, wouldn’t you feel even more hatred towards this underdog? Who does he think he is, that he can do that to you? He needs to be punished some more! Can you see where this is going?

In my own life this “justified” retaliation has been evident in a lingering undercurrent of hatred towards the Germans in Europe. Even now there are people that feel it justified to double charge a German tourist or break the antenna of a car with German license plates parked in a country that was occupied by previous generations seventy years ago! Those actions seem insignificant compared to what the Germans did, right?

We now know that the majority of Germans at that time had no idea about what happened in those camps that their rulers conveniently covered up as work camps. They allowed Hitler to rise on promises for a more prosperous future during a time of recession and poverty, unaware of the hidden agenda until it was too late. They acted in favor of him, believing he would fix their dire situation. By the time some started waking up to the evil that was happening, it was too late to speak up or they too would have become victims.

From this we can conclude that we all have the potential of serious violence in us, if we are directly threatened or brainwashed (as in taken on false beliefs), but the majority of us is mostly peace loving with a few minor flaws. There is a real danger in most modern societies now, with movies, games and even the news subtly influencing our sense of justice and need for revenge, increasing their violence ever more to keep the audience entertained, that this need for revenge will bite us on the bum one day.

We need to question what revenge actually achieves and makes us into. Would empathy and compassion not create a better understanding of the real reason behind violent actions that are committed, based upon the false belief that they will relieve a threat in some perverted way? Do they REALLY KNOW what they are doing?

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8 thoughts on “1000 voices speak for compassion

  1. My thoughts for compassion are a bit more immediate and personal; so I’mnot quite sure what to say. What I do wish to say is that I think your pseudonym is quite clever- “Pollyesther”. Any correlation to “Pollyanna” and the novel of the same name? I get the material reference, of course, having friends and family that knit and crochet (my mother is at a knitting convention right now).

    • Thank you for your response! This article was in response to the blog post mentioned. It serves to make people think a bit more deeply about the effects of social and cultural conditioning on our ideas about compassion and soften our judgment about others, no matter what terrible things they did in our eyes. (as you said: “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about”) With increased understanding of what drives them, we can find more compassion. Compassion should not be reserved for the “good” people alone if we want to heal the world and create peace. Your more immediate and personal thoughts are important too, for the whole idea of this initiative was to unite 1000 voices. By uniting we can see the whole picture better and be part of creating more compassion in the world on all levels! Thank you for your compliment on my name. Your questions about it are all covered in my very first blog post https://happypollyesther.com/2014/05/13/introduction-to-happy-pollyesther/ 🙂
      PS: I am not too shabby at knitting and crochet myself, but at the moment more focused on spinning blog posts 😉

      • Howdy– thanks for the reply. I’ve done Lizzi Roger’s Ten Things of Thankful blog hop before, and I’ve rubbed shoulders with Gene’o (especially on Twitter with his Sourcerer account), as well as some other WordPress bloggers– so, yep, word about #1000Speaks got to me pretty fast. I was nervous, though… I’ve been recovering from a back surgery and wasn’t sure I’d make a post in time; actually, I’m a day late.

        Headed over to your intro right now!

  2. This is only my first read on “1000 voices speak for compassion” but your write up is absolutely mind-blowing and inspiring. Being forgiving is certainly the first step to being compassionate. It’s the hardest thing to do for the most devious act but we all need to learn some of that.

    • Thank you Jill, for your wonderful feedback and choosing my blog as first to read out of all those amazing blog choices! I feel the way to compassion and forgiveness is creating a better and deeper understanding of what drives people. The world would improve enormously if more people could see the ignorance in judging the whole iceberg by just looking at the bit that sticks out of the water. With Gratitude. Polly

  3. Nelly.

    G’day Poll, what a powerful and brave post. I found it curious that as soon as I finished reading it occurred to me that the qualities of your post (powerful and brave) are the most common held traits of those amongst us most able to display deep compassion and forgiveness. You quite rightly identify fear as the primary motivator in our iniquities and in your lighter previous posts have regularly shown that love, particularly love given without condition is an effective remedy against mental turmoil. Keep up the wonderful work cobber.Great job.

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